Una Mukadzi wekuDutch ane makore makumi mashanu nemaviri ekuberekwa akaisa pakati pehurukuro yeruzhinji rudzi rwemhirizhonga yakanyanyisa uye kutonga mukati mevaviri: matattoo ekumanikidzwaNyaya yake yave kutaurwa munhau muEurope mushure mekunge zvabuda pachena kuti aimbova mudiwa wake anonzi ndiye akamumanikidza kuti aite matattoo. Zita rake ka250, mazita ake ekutanga uye zvirevo zvine simba muviri wese.
Munhu akabatwa, anozivikanwa sa Joke Munhau, akataura kuti akauya kuzova nevanhu vakakomberedza 90% yeganda rakafukidzwa nekutaura nezveaimbova mukomana wake, murume anonzi Hans, kusanganisira mashoko akadai sekuti "Property of" nemamwe mashoko ekutonga. Chiitiko ichi, maererano neuchapupu hwake nehwemasangano anomutsigira, chikamu chemaitiro akareba e kushungurudzwa kwepfungwa, kushungurudzwa panyama, uye kudzora vanhu nekumanikidza.
Hukama hunoratidzwa nekutya neinki
Sekureva kwaJoke, aimbova mudiwa wake Akatenga muchina we tattoo wakachipa kuburikidza nepuratifomu yekutengeserana yepamhepo, senge Aliexpress, munenge mugore ra2020. Kubva panguva iyoyo zvichienda mberi, akatanga maitiro akarongwa ekunyora muviri wake: zvikamu zvemaawa akati wandei, zvichidzokororwa kwemwedzi yakawanda, maaizonyora zita rake, mabhii ake ekutanga uye mitsara yakajeka yekuva nemukurumbira.
Mukadzi uyu anoti Yakanga isiri sarudzo yemahara kana yekugovanaasi tsika yaiitwa kana munhu achitya, achinyadziswa, uye achivimba naye. Anotsanangura kuti murwisi wacho akanyora tattoo panzvimbo dzaaifungidzira kuti vamwe varume vangangodaro vakamubata: mazamu, magaro nedzimwe nzvimbo dzepachivandepamwe chete nechiso, mutsipa, mhino, nzvimbo iri pedyo nemaziso nenzeve.
Nenzira iyi, mutumbi waJoke wakava rudzi rwe "nzvimbo ine chiratidzo," neshoko rekuti "Hans" akadzokororwa kakawanda uye mashoko akaita sekuti “Property of,” airatidza chishuwo chekuda kudzora zvachose hunhu hwake nechitarisiko chake. Mumashoko ake, airarama “mukutya” uye aisakwanisa kuramba kuenderera mberi nemisangano.
Rudzi urwu rwekumaka, sekureva kwenyanzvi nemasangano anotsigira vakakuvadzwa, runopindirana nezvinonzi chisimba chekumanikidza kudzorauko murwisi asingangokuvadzi panyama chete, asiwo anoedza kutora muviri nehupenyu hwemumwe munhu, achideredza kuzvitonga kwavo uye kugona kwavo kuita sarudzo.
Shanduro yemurwisi uye mamiriro akaomarara ekubvumirana
Kusiyana nezvakataurwa naJoke, munhu anonzi ndiye anokonzera mhirizhonga, anonzi HansAnoti matattoo ese akagadzirwa ne kubvuma yemukadzi panguva iyo hukama hwacho hwaivapo. Kusiyana uku kwave kuri chinhu chakakosha pakunzwisisa kuti sei, pasinei nekukomba kwenyaya iyi, nyaya iyi isina kufambira mberi mumatare edzimhosva sezvaungatarisira.
Mushure mekuparadzana, Joke akaenda ku mapurisa muNetherlands kuti vataure nezvezviitiko. Zvisinei, nyaya dzemhosva hadzina kuenderera mberi. Zvichienderana neuchapupu hwakaburitswa nesangano rinomutsigira, vakuru vakuru vakafunga nezve Zvakaoma kuratidza kuti pakanga pasina kubvumirana.kunyanya nekuti mupomerwi akaramba achiti anobvuma kunyorwa tattoo pese paanenge anyora.
Andy Han, muvambi wesangano reDutch Kugadzira Tattoo yeSpijt van (izvo zvinogona kushandurwa zvichinzi “Ndinozvidemba nematattoo angu”), vakatsanangura kuti mamiriro ezvinhu epamutemo akaoma zvikuru kana zvasvika patsika dzinoitwa mukati mehukama hwerudo. Kunyangwe kubva kunze zvingaita sezviri pachena kuti hapana munhu angatora tattoo nekuzvidira. pedyo neziso, pamhino, kana panzeve Nezita remumwe wavo, mutoro wekupa humbowo unowira pamunhu akabatwa.
Uyezve, Joke paakasvika kekutanga pasangano, akaratidza mufananidzo we kudhakwa nekupindwa muropa nezvinodhaka izvo, maererano naHan, zvaive zvakabatana zvakanyanya nekushungurudzwa kwaitaurwa. Kudzikira uku kwemunhu kwaizove, kusvika pamwero mukuru, mhedzisiro yemamiriro emhirizhonga pachayo, chimwe chinhu chinoitawo kuti zviomere munhu akabatwa kurondedzera zvese zvaakasangana nazvo nenzira yakatevedzana uye yakadzama, zvichiomesa maitiro emutemo.
Rutsigiro kubva kusangano rakanyatsogadzirwa uye nzira refu uye inorwadza yekudzima
Zvichienderana nekushaikwa kwekufambira mberi mumatare, rutsigiro rukuru rwaJoke rwakabva kunharaunda. Kugadzira Tattoo yeSpijt vanKambani iyi iri kuNetherlands yave kubatanidzwa zvizere munyaya yake. Muvambi wayo, Andy Han, nechikwata chake vanga vachishanda kwemakore mashoma apfuura kuti kubviswa kwetattoo ne laser uye kuvapa rutsigiro rwepfungwa.
Kubvisa matattoo akakura uye akagadzirwa zvakaoma zvikuru. inki nhema muzvikamu zvakadzokororwa Zvinosanganisira kuitwa nguva dzakawanda ne laser sessions, izvo zvinorwadza, zvinoda nguva yekupora, uye hazvigonese kubviswa zvakanaka nguva dzose. Munyaya yaJoke, mari yese yekurapa inofungidzirwa kupfuura 25.000 kusvika 30.000 euros, chiumbwa chisingawanikwe nevanhu vazhinji vasina rutsigiro rwekunze.
Kuti ifukidze mari idzi, sangano iri rakatanga chirongwa che mushandirapamwe wekutsvaga mari kuburikidza nepuratifomu yeGoFundMe. Mhinduro yacho yaive yakakosha: mipiro yakawedzerwa £ 26.000, zvichipfuura chinangwa chekutanga uye zvichibvumira mari yakawanda yekubvisa matattoo anosvika mazana maviri nemakumi mashanu.
Nekuda kwemisangano iyi, chikamu chikuru chemakambani ainyanya kuonekwa, kunyanya ayo aive mu kumeso uye kumberi kwemuviriMatattoo atove pedyo nekubviswa zvachose kana kuti anyangarika zvakanyanya. Joke anotarisira kuti akawanda ematattoo acho achange asisina pakupera kwekurapwa, chimwe chinhu icho, maererano nekufanotaura kwesangano, chinogona kuitika mumwedzi mishoma inotevera.
Kukuvara kunopfuura ganda: migumisiro yepfungwa uye kudzora mhirizhonga
Kunyangwe kubviswa ne laser kuchibvumira kupora zvishoma nezvishoma kwechitarisiko chakasiyana chemuviri, migumisiro yepfungwa Zvakaoma zvikuru kuzvidzima. Joke pamwe chete nenyanzvi dzinomutsigira vanoti kuona mashoko anotaurwa nemunhu anomushungurudza zuva nezuva pamberi pegirazi imhando ye kudzorera kutambudzika kwachokunyangwe kana hukama hwatopera.
Sangano reDutch Foundation nemamwe masangano anoshanda nevakashungurudzwa vanosimbisa kuti nyaya iyi haisi nyaya yega kana kuti "kungofanana" kwevaviri. Matattoo anowanikwa nechisimba kana pasi pekumanikidzwa anomiririra kuratidza kwakanyanya kwekudzora chisimba, iyo inosanganisa kutonga kwepfungwa, kurwiswa kwemuviri uye kuedza kuwana hunhu hwemunhu akabatwa.
Kazhinji, vanotsanangura kuti, matattoo aya anoitwa pamwe chete nemamwe maitiro ekushungurudza: Kushungurudzwa nguva dzose, kutyisidzirwa, kuparadzaniswa nevamwe, uye kudzvinyirirwa mupfungwaZvese izvi zvinogadzira mamiriro ezvinhu umo munhu anenge abatwa anonzwa kuti hapana nzira yekubuda nayo uye hapana kugona kuramba, kunyangwe kubva kunze zvingatsanangurwa se "mvumo" yepamutemo.
Nyanzvi dzezvemhirizhonga yevakadzi nedzepfungwa dzinoyambira kuti, kunyangwe kana munhu anorwisa achiti mumwe munhu akabvuma "zvakasununguka", simba kusaenzanaKuvapo kwekutya, kumanikidzwa kana kumanikidzwa kushandisa zvinodhaka, uye kuvimba nezvemari kana manzwiro zvinogona kukanganisa zvachose mvumo.
Kuunganidza mari yekubatana uye rutsigiro kune vamwe vakakuvadzwa
Kupfuura maitiro ake ekupora, Joke aida kuti ruzivo rwake rubatsire kuita kuti rudzi urwu rwemhirizhonga ruonekwe uye kusvika kune vamwe vakadzi vari mumamiriro ezvinhu akafanana. Chikamu chemari yakaunganidzwa uye kutariswa kwenhau kwakagamuchirwa nenyaya iyi zviri kushandiswa kutsigira vamwe vakabatwa vane matattoo paganda ravo anokonzerwa nevanoshungurudza.
Sangano reStichting Spijt van Tattoo rakaona kuti vanhu vakawanda, kunyanya vakadzi, vari kusvika vaine matattoo ane mazita kana zviratidzo zvine chekuita nevadiwa vavo kana paine mamiriro ezvinhu ekuti kumanikidzwa, kutya, kana kutyisidzirwa nepfungwaZvimwe zviratidzo zvekuva neudyire zviri pachena; zvimwe, zvinoita sezvisina njodzi, asi zvine revo inorwadza mushure mekushungurudzwa kwehukama.
Kushandira Joke nechikwata chevanhu vakawanda hakuna kungovhara chete nguva dzake dzekushandisa laser, asiwo kwakapa zvinhu zvekupa kurapwa kwemahara kana kudhura zvishoma kune vamwe vanhu vari mumamiriro ezvinhu emari asina kugadzikana. Munhu akabatwa pachake akataura kuti chero mari yasara mushure mekunge maitiro apera ichashandiswa pachinangwa ichi, nepfungwa yekuti hapana anofanira kusiyiwa ari munjodzi yehukama hwekushungurudzwa nekuti haakwanise kubviswa matattoo ake.
Mumashoko ake epachena, Joke anopa meseji yekukurudzira kune avo vari kusangana nezviitiko zvakafanana: anovimbisa kuti "Avo vakarwadziwa zvikuru vanogona kumukazve" Uye kuti, kana ari kukwanisa kutora matanho ekufambira mberi, vamwe vanhu vanogonawo kuzviita nerubatsiro rwakakosha uye rutsigiro rwemagariro evanhu.
Nyaya iyi yakashandawo kukurudzira gakava muEurope pamusoro pekudiwa kwe simbisa hurongwa hwemutemo zvine chekuita nemhirizhonga yevakadzi nevarume uye kutonga muviri muhukama. Nyanzvi dzezvemitemo nemasangano anotaura kuti masangano ekutonga mhosva achiri kunetseka kuona nekuratidza kumanikidzwa mumamiriro ezvinhu apo, kunze, panogona kuita sekunge pane kubvumirana, asi muchokwadi paive nekutya, kuvimba, uye kuzviisa pasi.
Pakupedzisira, nyaya yaJoke inoratidza nenzira yakajeka kuti chisungo chemanzwiro chinogona kushanduka sei kuita jeri rakachekwa pagandaUye kutiza gehena iroro kunosanganisira kupindira mune zvehutano kunodhura uye kuita kwenguva refu kwemanzwiro. Kubatanidzwa kwemasangano, kubatana kwevanhu, uye ruzivo rwakakura rwemasangano zvakakosha kuitira kuti vakadzi vakaita saiye vasarambe vachibereka, gore negore, zviratidzo zvavasina kumbobvira vasarudza zvechokwadi.